Describe an argument two of your friends had: IELTS Speaking Cue Card

You should say

  • Who the friends were?
  • What the argument was about?
  • How did they express their disagreement?
  • And explain how you felt about it.

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I would like to talk about an argument between two of my close friends whom I have known for several years. They are both good people but they have very different personalities. The argument was about planning a trip. One of them wanted to travel on a low budget and focus mainly on nature and local experiences while the other preferred stay in comfortable hotels and following a fixed plan. As they discussed it, the conversation slowly turned into an argument because neither of them was ready to compromise. They expressed their disagreement mainly through raised voices and strong opinions but they were not rude or disrespectful to one another and eventually they both tried to justify their choices by giving examples and explaining their preferences. I felt a bit uncomfortable during the argument because I didn't want either of them to feel hurt. However, after some time they both calmed down and realized that they needed to listen to each other. In the end, they found a middle solution and the argument actually helped them understand each other better.

Follow up questions


How do you think arguments can affect friendships?
Arguments can sometimes strengthen friendships by allowing friends to understand each other's perspectives better. However, if not handled well, they can also lead to misunderstandings and resentment. It's important for friends to communicate openly and resolve conflicts respectfully.

What strategies can people use to resolve conflicts effectively?
Effective conflict resolution strategies include active listening, staying calm, and finding common ground. It's also helpful to express feelings without blaming the other person and to be willing to compromise. These strategies can lead to a more constructive discussion and a better understanding.

Have you ever had a similar argument with friends? How did you resolve it?
Yes, I have had similar arguments with friends over planning trips. We resolved it by discussing our preferences openly and finding a balance between our ideas. We made a list of activities that included both budget-friendly options and some comfortable experiences, which made everyone happy.

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A recent argument that two of my friends had was a really a major one, which really seemed to be about conflicting views about the existence of Gods. While one of my friends was a staunch believer in God and the other one happens to be an atheist. Both of them argued placing their point very strongly. However, I do not agree to whatever that they were saying. While they were right with their putting forth their own views, however, they did not realize that while arguing, all they did was hurt each other. I think a better way to argue about such a sensitive topic would be when both of them would be at peace and in a position to learn and understand the other person's point of view. And frankly, when both of the parties involved in the argument are angry and upset, it doesn't really lead to a very pleasant thing to argue about.

Follow up questions


How do you think arguments can affect friendships?
Arguments can significantly impact friendships, as they may lead to misunderstandings and hurt feelings. If friends cannot resolve their differences respectfully, it might create a rift between them. However, if handled well, arguments can also strengthen friendships by fostering better communication and understanding.

What strategies can people use to resolve conflicts peacefully?
To resolve conflicts peacefully, individuals can practice active listening, where they truly hear each other's perspectives. They can also take breaks during heated discussions to cool down, use 'I' statements to express feelings without blaming, and focus on finding common ground rather than winning the argument.

Why do you think some topics lead to more intense arguments?
Some topics, like religion or politics, are deeply personal and tied to people's identities and beliefs. When individuals feel that their core values are being challenged, they may react more emotionally, leading to intense arguments. These subjects often lack a clear right or wrong, making discussions more contentious.

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One silly feud that I remember my colleagues Pandian and Shivaraman had is what comes to my mind when I think of argument between friends. I don't exactly remember what the cause for the argument was but it certainly was some misunderstanding over somebody mocking Pandian and Shivaraman getting along with them. But it got to a point that they took it very personally and before to this they were inseparable but after this they wouldn't even look at each other. At first we all didn't care much, we thought they might get back together in a matter of time. But they kept at it for months together and we used to go together for lunch and then it started that Pandian would stay away from the group. It actually started to become really awkward for the whole group. Then we thought of taking matters into our hands and then we decided to get them to talk to each other. However, many attempts we tried they never truly understood what the problem was because they both had different interpretation of what had happened. At last on my birthday I decided this can't happen for much long because usually we had a habit of getting together and going out for lunches. So I called them both, I invited them both for a lunch party and then there we sorted it out. Ever since then they have not had a fight. But they are really good friends that they have all these silly fights every now and then.

Follow up questions


What do you think caused the misunderstanding between Pandian and Shivaraman?
The misunderstanding seemed to stem from a joke that was taken too seriously. Sometimes, friends can misinterpret each other's intentions, leading to unnecessary conflicts. In this case, it was likely a miscommunication that escalated due to their strong feelings for each other.

How did the group dynamics change during their argument?
The group dynamics became quite awkward as Pandian started distancing himself from the group. It was uncomfortable for everyone since they were used to being together. We felt the tension and wanted to help resolve the issue to restore the harmony we once had.

What strategies did you use to help them reconcile?
We tried several times to get them to talk, but it didn't work initially. Finally, I decided to host a lunch party on my birthday, bringing them together in a relaxed environment. This setting helped them communicate openly, leading to a resolution of their conflict.

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I would like to talk about an argument that happened between two of my close friends Riya and Anjali during our college days. We were all part of the same project group and the disagreement occurred during one of our planning sessions. The argument was about dividing the work fairly, Riya felt that Anjali was not doing her part and was relying too much on others. On the other hand, Anjali believed that she had done the initial research, so it was now the others turn to contribute more. The discussion started calmly, but it soon turned a bit heated. Both of them raised their voices at each other and started blaming. The rest of us in the group were quite uncomfortable as we did not want to take the sides. In the end, I decided to step in and try to mediate the situation. I suggested we write down each task and assign it clearly to avoid confusion. Once the roles were divided properly, things calmed down and both of them apologized to each other the next day. Personally, I felt quite awkward and a bit anxious during the argument because they are both good friends of mine. But I also realized that misunderstandings are common when people work together and clear communication is the really important key to avoid conflicts.

Follow up questions


How did you feel when the argument escalated?
I felt quite anxious and awkward because both Riya and Anjali are good friends of mine. It was uncomfortable to see them arguing, and I was worried about how it would affect our group dynamics.

What strategies can help resolve conflicts among friends?
I believe clear communication is crucial. Setting clear expectations and roles can prevent misunderstandings. Additionally, having a neutral party to mediate can help both sides feel heard and find a resolution.

Have you ever experienced a similar situation in a different context?
Yes, I've seen similar conflicts arise in group projects at work. It often comes down to miscommunication and differing expectations. Addressing issues early and encouraging open dialogue can help prevent escalation.

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I remember during high school, my two best friends, Shreya and Nitya, who were also my classmates, had a big fight and it led to a huge misunderstanding between both of them and it affected me as well. It was caused because of Shreya not being able to help Nitya with her projects. Usually, my friend Shreya is always helping Nitya with writing her assignments as she has good handwriting. But this time, she was really busy with her other friends and forgot about the help she had to give to Nitya. And I remember Nitya confronting Shreya about this and both of them expressed their feelings and Shreya had also apologized to her. And it made me feel like in a tight position but it was ended well as they both apologized. And it was also a point where I had to choose sides but I ended up not doing so as it would have ended in a very heated argument. I made them understand that there was no ill intention of anyone in this scenario and that we should not be quarreling over such a small misunderstanding. Furthermore, Shreya promised Nitya that she would help her and not forget about her assignments in future and she assured her that she would make it on time as well. And Nitya was relieved hearing this and it went off and ended very smoothly and positively as both showed maturity instead of fighting over the same thing again and again.

Follow up questions


How do you think misunderstandings can be resolved effectively?
I believe misunderstandings can be resolved through open communication. It's important for both parties to express their feelings honestly and listen to each other. Finding common ground and showing empathy can also help in resolving conflicts peacefully.

What role do friends play in resolving conflicts between others?
Friends can act as mediators in conflicts, helping to facilitate communication and understanding. They can provide support and perspective, encouraging both sides to see the issue from each other's viewpoints, which can lead to a resolution.

Have you ever had to mediate a conflict between friends? How did it go?
Yes, I have mediated conflicts before. I listened to both sides and encouraged them to talk it out. It was challenging, but ultimately, they were able to understand each other better and resolve their differences, which strengthened their friendship.
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Cue 1:Who the friends were?

  • Introduce your friends by mentioning their names and a brief description of their relationship with you.
  • Explain how long you have known them and what common interests they share.

Example

My friends, Ravi and Priya, have been close friends of mine since college. Ravi is an avid cricket fan, while Priya is more into football. They often engage in friendly debates about sports, which is something I enjoy watching.


Cue 2:What the argument was about?

  • Clearly state the topic of the argument and why it was significant to both friends.
  • Mention any specific event or situation that triggered the disagreement.

Example

Recently, they had a heated argument about which sport is better, cricket or football. This debate started during a match screening at my house, where Ravi was supporting India in a cricket match, while Priya was frustrated that she couldn’t watch her favorite football team play.


Cue 3:How did they express their disagreement?

  • Describe the tone and manner in which they expressed their disagreement, whether it was calm or heated.
  • Include any specific phrases or actions that highlighted their disagreement.

Example

Their disagreement escalated quickly. Ravi raised his voice, passionately defending cricket, while Priya countered with statistics about football's global popularity. They both gestured animatedly, which made the argument quite entertaining for me.


Cue 4:And explain how you felt about it.

  • Share your feelings about the argument, whether you found it amusing, concerning, or something else.
  • Mention if you tried to mediate or if you enjoyed watching the debate unfold.

Example

I found their argument quite amusing, as it reminded me of our college days. I didn’t intervene because I knew they would eventually laugh it off. It was interesting to see their passion for their respective sports, and it made for a lively evening.


Conclusion

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    In conclusion, witnessing Ravi and Priya's argument was a reminder of how friends can have differing opinions yet maintain a strong bond. It highlighted their personalities and interests, making our friendship even more vibrant.


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    A recent argument that two of my friends had was a really a major one, which really seemed to be about conflicting views about the existence of Gods. While one of my friends was a staunch believer in God and the other one happens to be an atheist. Both of them argued placing their point very strongly. However, I do not agree to whatever that they were saying. While they were right with their putting forth their own views, however, they did not realize that while arguing, all they did was hurt each other. I think a better way to argue about such a sensitive topic would be when both of them would be at peace and in a position to learn and understand the other person's point of view. And frankly, when both of the parties involved in the argument are angry and upset, it doesn't really lead to a very pleasant thing to argue about.

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    I remember during high school, my two best friends, Shreya and Nitya, who were also my classmates, had a big fight and it led to a huge misunderstanding between both of them and it affected me as well. It was caused because of Shreya not being able to help Nitya with her projects. Usually, my friend Shreya is always helping Nitya with writing her assignments as she has good handwriting. But this time, she was really busy with her other friends and forgot about the help she had to give to Nitya. And I remember Nitya confronting Shreya about this and both of them expressed their feelings and Shreya had also apologized to her. And it made me feel like in a tight position but it was ended well as they both apologized. And it was also a point where I had to choose sides but I ended up not doing so as it would have ended in a very heated argument. I made them understand that there was no ill intention of anyone in this scenario and that we should not be quarreling over such a small misunderstanding. Furthermore, Shreya promised Nitya that she would help her and not forget about her assignments in future and she assured her that she would make it on time as well. And Nitya was relieved hearing this and it went off and ended very smoothly and positively as both showed maturity instead of fighting over the same thing again and again.

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    One silly feud that I remember my colleagues Pandian and Shivaraman had is what comes to my mind when I think of argument between friends. I don't exactly remember what the cause for the argument was but it certainly was some misunderstanding over somebody mocking Pandian and Shivaraman getting along with them. But it got to a point that they took it very personally and before to this they were inseparable but after this they wouldn't even look at each other. At first we all didn't care much, we thought they might get back together in a matter of time. But they kept at it for months together and we used to go together for lunch and then it started that Pandian would stay away from the group. It actually started to become really awkward for the whole group. Then we thought of taking matters into our hands and then we decided to get them to talk to each other. However, many attempts we tried they never truly understood what the problem was because they both had different interpretation of what had happened. At last on my birthday I decided this can't happen for much long because usually we had a habit of getting together and going out for lunches. So I called them both, I invited them both for a lunch party and then there we sorted it out. Ever since then they have not had a fight. But they are really good friends that they have all these silly fights every now and then.

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    I would like to talk about an argument that happened between two of my close friends Riya and Anjali during our college days. We were all part of the same project group and the disagreement occurred during one of our planning sessions. The argument was about dividing the work fairly, Riya felt that Anjali was not doing her part and was relying too much on others. On the other hand, Anjali believed that she had done the initial research, so it was now the others turn to contribute more. The discussion started calmly, but it soon turned a bit heated. Both of them raised their voices at each other and started blaming. The rest of us in the group were quite uncomfortable as we did not want to take the sides. In the end, I decided to step in and try to mediate the situation. I suggested we write down each task and assign it clearly to avoid confusion. Once the roles were divided properly, things calmed down and both of them apologized to each other the next day. Personally, I felt quite awkward and a bit anxious during the argument because they are both good friends of mine. But I also realized that misunderstandings are common when people work together and clear communication is the really important key to avoid conflicts.

    Band 6-7

    I'd like to describe an argument between two of my friends I had back in first year of college. They were great friends in the beginning, always had each other's back, spent most of their time together, they were everything to each other. But I could notice that they always compared themselves to each other. It was done on a daily basis, maybe not directly but in the way they frame their words, sentences or the way they just talk on a general basis. Their love language was definitely making fun of each other, banter and it was quite fun, it was cute in a sense. But it got to a point where they were crossing boundaries and everyone around them like the whole group, rest of us, we started getting very uncomfortable. One day, them being them, as the usual we were just walking around and the topic somehow started about how one of their parents earns more than the other which I think was very unnecessary and should not be a topic of conversation at all. One thing led to another and now they are not even on a talking basis. The people who were once everything to each other got their ego and pride and unnecessary arguments between them and destroyed a bond just based on comparisons and ego clashes. I think this is something that is very common in our generation but one should learn to have the maturity to let things slide and apologize and make up for their mistakes. Only then bonds will last.

    Band 6-7

    There are two of my friends from college, very nice close friends of mine, they once had an argument on whether mobile phones are good or not. One was against it and one was in favor of it. The one who was against it stated that they are a distraction, they are useless, they can't help you, they are just a waste of time, while the one in favor stated that it's useful if you use it wisely, it can help you, it has many resources, the resources are free, they are free of cost, you can use it, then it's helpful, you can access a lot of things in just a few seconds, you can deliver messages within a fraction of a second and all. While in their argument, I was hearing their argument and what I felt was, mobiles can be a blessing if you use it wisely and a curse if you don't use it wisely. You see, using anything, even books can be harmful if you don't use it wisely, but it's a gift if you use it properly, same goes with mobile phones. You should know how to use it. So I think the conclusion should be, mobile phones are not good or bad, the person who uses it is good or bad. If I'm a good person, I'll do good things with the mobile, if I'm a bad person, I'll waste my time, I'll do whatever bad that is with the mobile, so that's what I feel.

    Band 6-7

    this question I would say that this argument happened between my friends that I met online so we had a group of three friends including me and there was a guy and a girl and the guy's name was Abhi and the girl's name was Kash and this whole argument had the basis of miscommunication because my friend Kash had her exams going on and there was a lot other things that were happening in her life and because of that she was not able to talk to us as much as she would have wanted to and this sort of created a drift between them and it also created a bridge it also created differences between the group because we were not really able to understand her situation and perspective and Abhi my other friend got really agitated and sad and heartbroken that this was happening and in the midst of all of that the argument sort of took a really vigorous turn and things started to go to get worse and they had an argument about the about the whole situation and how she was not giving him enough time to talk and he was also agitated that things were not really going the way that he had wanted to and he felt like his needs in a friendship were not being met and she had a perspective that she was not being understood and I feel like there was also a feeling of just being detached from a person and this is how the whole friendship basically got dissolved and I am not in contact with her anymore and neither is he and we sort of developed a close friendship

    Band 6-7

    Two of my friends which were my classmates in my college during the initial years, so they were arguing about who contributed more to the group project. One of my friends stated that she contributed more than the other people and one of my friends said that she contributed more than everyone else, but in reality one of my friends only contributed for everybody like 80% of the contribution was hers in our presentation and my other friend who wanted credit for organizing and planning the whole group project and wanted to take credit for the A grade that we all scored in the group project. So I really felt bad about my friend who gave her best and still got offended and disappointed by the behavior of my other friend who just wanted to overachieve and flaunt that she did all the work, all the hard work, but in reality my other friend struggled every day to complete the assignments because most of us were involved in extracurricular activities and were participating for the departmental sports tournament. So we couldn't give our 100% for the group project and she somehow managed it all by herself. My other friend was also very helpful, but she in this situation...

    Band 6-7

    An argument which was very memorable for me was defending our GOATs, greatest of all time footballer. In my opinion, I think Ronaldo is GOAT and my friend was arguing that Messi is the GOAT. In that situation, he was always telling me that Messi won the World Cup having 8 ball indoors and everything. In that, I have told him that football isn't about trophies, it's about skills. I think Ronaldo has better skills as well as dribbling, passing and the best is his shooting ability in the box-to-box area. As well as he has the passing and throw ability which helps him to get out of all the other players. He was always better in header as he has most ability to make goals and great IQ. But he always telling me that Messi is a great dribbler and have more ability to make goals as well as he has more ability to initiate the goal. He is a great assister but of course, Ronaldo has more goals and in that, he argues that Messi has more assists. Of course, I think World Cup is the most important factor for describing our GOATs but it is not the only factor to describe football. Of course, Portugal is a team which is not that confined or very important or very proper team but like Argentina has won World Cup multiple times. So, I think this banter was very friendly and I guess from this, we learn about both.
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