Describe an important thing you learned (not at school or college): IELTS Speaking Cue Card

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  • When did you learn it?
  • How did you learn it?
  • Why did you think it was important to learn it?
  • How you felt when you learnt it?

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Okay, if I have to talk about one of the important things that I have learned, not in a school or in a college, that would definitely be to trust myself and not to trust anybody else. As I have really bad experience with my friendships and with my colleagues about trusting people, I have learned it really hard way because I have got really bad experiences when I was learning this thing. Once upon a time, I used to trust every person that I was around. I was really dependent on my friendships because I have no sisters and I'm the only girl in the family. So I just found a really wide in my heart and I was really searching for any bound that will be important for me as my sister would be. It was really important lesson because I think without this life, this lesson taught me that you should be independent. There will be persons in your life who would be really important for you and you would really care about them, but that definitely doesn't mean that you have to completely trust that person and give all of your secrets and all of your heartfelt things in front of them. You should never be an open book to them. Definitely, there are few persons that are really meant to be yours and with them, I think you can be yourself.

Follow up questions


How did your experiences shape your view on trust?
My experiences taught me that trust should be earned, not freely given. I learned to be cautious and to observe people's actions before opening up to them. This has helped me build stronger, more reliable relationships.

Can you share a specific incident that influenced your lesson on trust?
Yes, there was a time when I confided in a friend about a personal issue, and she shared it with others. It was a painful experience that made me realize not everyone has good intentions, leading me to be more selective about whom I trust.

How do you maintain independence in your relationships?
I maintain independence by setting boundaries and ensuring I have my own interests and hobbies. This way, I don't rely solely on others for my happiness and can enjoy my friendships without losing myself.

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One personal development activity I undertook is reading the book The Intelligent Investor. I started reading this book a year ago when I wanted to improve my financial literacy. The reason I chose this book is that I heard about how it simplifies complex financial concepts with easy to understand theories. As an investor, I wanted to strengthen my foundation and mindset around money. I read this book over a course of a week and it had a lasting impact on me. The first thing I learnt is that I became more disciplined and focused on long term goals. Second, it improved my confidence when discussing finance with others. Overall, this small but meaningful step really contributed to my personal growth and financial growth. This book is amazing and it is the best book I ever read in my entire life. It mainly focuses on the fundamentals of finance and all the strategic things that we need to know about the companies and their financial structure. Overall, I really wanted to strengthen my foundation in finance.

Follow up questions


How has your understanding of finance changed since reading the book?
Since reading The Intelligent Investor, my understanding of finance has deepened significantly. I now grasp complex concepts better and can analyze financial statements with more confidence. This has allowed me to make more informed investment decisions and engage in meaningful discussions about finance.

What other personal development activities do you plan to pursue?
I plan to pursue more personal development activities such as taking online courses in financial analysis and attending investment workshops. Additionally, I want to read more books on personal finance and investing to further enhance my knowledge and skills in this area.

Can you share a specific example of how you applied what you learned?
After reading the book, I applied what I learned by creating a diversified investment portfolio. I researched different companies and their financial health, which helped me make better investment choices. This practical application reinforced the concepts I learned and boosted my confidence in managing my finances.

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The most important thing that I've learned over the years is responsibility and accountability. I had to move to a different city for my higher studies and in that period I learned how important it is to take care of your own things, to prioritize on your own well-being. Being home we were always dependent on our parents. However, taking this step to move away and being in a different city teaches you a lot. May it be simple menial things as taking care of your identity proofs or your home key so that you don't lose it or actually being accountable for how you behave. This does not stop here. It also means how how do other people behave to you. Being responsible is a great activity that could be practiced. It also allows you to submit all your assignments on time, to be punctual, to prioritize yourself over others, to be best. You have to put on your best effort forward and I've seen that being accountable takes you a long way.

Follow up questions


How did you develop your sense of responsibility?
I developed my sense of responsibility gradually. Initially, it was challenging to manage everything on my own, but I learned through experience. Setting small goals and holding myself accountable for them helped me build this skill over time.

Can you share a specific experience that taught you accountability?
One specific experience was when I forgot to submit an important assignment on time. It affected my grades, and I realized that I needed to manage my time better. This incident taught me the importance of being accountable for my actions and their consequences.

How do you think responsibility impacts personal relationships?
Responsibility plays a crucial role in personal relationships. When individuals are accountable for their actions, it builds trust and respect. It also encourages open communication, as people feel more secure in expressing their feelings and concerns when they know others are responsible.

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One important thing that I have learned throughout the course of my life would be the importance of doing things systematically. Many times we just push the things that we want to do to the side and it gets piled up. In my native language there's a saying which goes that if you are a person who is lacy or you procrastinate a lot, your work piles up to an extent that it becomes a hill and you will have to carry that hill on your back and that makes so much of sense. But I never realized it until I started living alone in Delhi. I learned the importance of doing things systematically. So initially I was not a very systematic person so my laundry used to pile up, my dirty dishes used to pile up, my work used to pile up. Then I started doing everything systematically. I made sure that all my laundry, the day it starts becoming, the day I have one or two laundry to do, I just do it. The day I have, I made sure that every single day before sleeping my sink should be completely clean and it should not have no dirty dishes. So I started taking these minute measures and yeah, as the saying goes, drop by drop makes a mighty ocean. So that happened and this became a habit for me. I started very consciously planning my days and even for the work that I used to put aside and keep for the next day, I started doing them as well instantly. And then instantaneously I became a very sorted person who was going very well with the flow. So I understood the importance of being a very systematic person and that helps me a lot in my life. It makes me more efficient, more productive and it just makes life so much easier. So an important thing I learned would be being systematic.

Follow up questions


How do you think being systematic affects your daily life?
Being systematic has greatly improved my daily life. It helps me manage my time better, reduces stress, and allows me to accomplish tasks efficiently. I find that I have more free time because I'm not constantly catching up on chores or work, which makes my overall life more enjoyable.

Can you share a specific example of a task you manage systematically?
One specific task I manage systematically is my grocery shopping. I create a list before going to the store, which helps me avoid impulse buys and ensures I get everything I need. This not only saves time but also helps me stick to my budget and eat healthier.

What challenges did you face while trying to be more systematic?
Initially, I struggled with consistency. It was easy to fall back into old habits of procrastination. However, I overcame this by setting small, achievable goals and rewarding myself for sticking to my new routine. Over time, it became a natural part of my life.

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Something that I've learnt in my present life and not in school and college is the endurance and the stability that I've learnt after marriage. Earlier also I was hardworking but not to that extent which I have developed now. Being a mother of two kids and managing all my household chores efficiently, I look forward to my continuous professional development and I make efforts to learn everyday, keep growing everyday and acquire the most of the knowledge that I can in my free time rather than wasting the time on petty and unimportant things. With developing more of understanding, interpersonal skills, empathy and different time management, I have relatively grown as a better human being. I respect the feelings of others. I also respect the time that I am giving to my studies, to my development as well as the time that I should devote to my family. I just take care that none of the important things that actually matter in my life should be neglected, focusing on my professional development only. I take care of all the aspects equally and try to be more efficient, more stable and more eligible to all the works assigned.

Follow up questions


How has marriage changed your perspective on personal growth?
Marriage has taught me the importance of balancing personal growth with family responsibilities. I now prioritize my time better and focus on continuous learning while ensuring my family’s needs are met. This dual focus has made me more efficient and aware of my personal development.

What specific skills have you developed since becoming a mother?
Since becoming a mother, I've developed strong time management skills, empathy, and interpersonal skills. Juggling household chores and parenting has taught me to prioritize tasks effectively and understand the feelings of others, which has contributed to my growth as a person.

Can you share an example of how you manage your time effectively?
I create a daily schedule that allocates specific time slots for my studies, family activities, and personal time. By setting clear priorities and sticking to my plan, I ensure that I am productive while also being present for my family, which helps me maintain a healthy balance.
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Cue 1:When did you learn it?

  • Mention a specific time frame when you learned this important thing, such as a few months ago or during a particular event.
  • Provide context about what was happening in your life at that time to make it more relatable.

Example

I learned this important lesson about financial management about six months ago when I started my first job. It was a significant transition for me as I was moving from being a student to a working professional.


Cue 2:How did you learn it?

  • Explain the method or source through which you learned this lesson, such as through a book, a workshop, or advice from someone.
  • Share any specific experiences or activities that helped you grasp this knowledge.

Example

I learned about financial management by attending a workshop organized by my company. The workshop was conducted by a financial expert who shared practical tips on budgeting and saving.


Cue 3:Why did you think it was important to learn it?

  • Discuss the reasons that made this lesson significant for you, such as future goals or personal circumstances.
  • Connect the importance of this lesson to your life or career aspirations.

Example

I thought it was crucial to learn about financial management because I wanted to ensure that I could save for my future and manage my expenses wisely. As I was starting my career, I realized that understanding finances would help me achieve my long-term goals.


Cue 4:How you felt when you learnt it?

  • Describe your emotions when you grasped this lesson, whether it was excitement, relief, or empowerment.
  • Reflect on how this knowledge has impacted your confidence or mindset.

Example

When I learned about financial management, I felt empowered and relieved. It was like a weight had been lifted off my shoulders because I now had the tools to take control of my finances, which made me feel more confident about my future.


Conclusion

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    In conclusion, learning about financial management was a pivotal moment in my life. It not only equipped me with essential skills but also changed my perspective on money and savings, setting a solid foundation for my future.


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    One of the most important things I have learned outside the school is how to communicate effectively with people, especially patients, through my work in a pharmacy. At first I thought pharmacy was only about medicine and prescriptions, but I quickly realized that clear communication is just as essential as medical knowledge. For example, many customers come in and with very little understanding of how to take their medication and sometimes they are quite anxious about side effects. By learning to listen patiently, explain instruction in simple terms and show empathy, I have been able to build trust with them. This not only helps them follow their treatment properly, but also makes them feel reassured. What makes this lesson important is that it goes beyond my profession. Good communication skills have improved my relationship with friends and family as well. I have learned that speaking clearly and listening carefully can prevent a misunderstanding and strengthen connection. Overall, this experience has taught me that knowledge alone is not enough. The way we share it and connect with others can have an even greater impact. I believe this skill will continue to benefit me in both my personal and professional life.

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    Throughout life we learn a lot of different things, we have different experiences that teach us different lessons. Of all the lessons that I have learnt so far, the one that I feel is the most important and has improved me greatly is that the competition isn't with other people, the competition is with myself. The point isn't if I'm better than the others, the point is if I'm better than I was yesterday. Gradual improvement beats an instantaneous leap. Not only does comparing with myself help me improve, it also keeps my confidence stable. Comparing myself with others only leads to more insecurities, more self-doubt, which at the end of the day helps nobody, especially not me.

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    One important thing that I have learned throughout the course of my life would be the importance of doing things systematically. Many times we just push the things that we want to do to the side and it gets piled up. In my native language there's a saying which goes that if you are a person who is lacy or you procrastinate a lot, your work piles up to an extent that it becomes a hill and you will have to carry that hill on your back and that makes so much of sense. But I never realized it until I started living alone in Delhi. I learned the importance of doing things systematically. So initially I was not a very systematic person so my laundry used to pile up, my dirty dishes used to pile up, my work used to pile up. Then I started doing everything systematically. I made sure that all my laundry, the day it starts becoming, the day I have one or two laundry to do, I just do it. The day I have, I made sure that every single day before sleeping my sink should be completely clean and it should not have no dirty dishes. So I started taking these minute measures and yeah, as the saying goes, drop by drop makes a mighty ocean. So that happened and this became a habit for me. I started very consciously planning my days and even for the work that I used to put aside and keep for the next day, I started doing them as well instantly. And then instantaneously I became a very sorted person who was going very well with the flow. So I understood the importance of being a very systematic person and that helps me a lot in my life. It makes me more efficient, more productive and it just makes life so much easier. So an important thing I learned would be being systematic.

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    One thing that I believe I learned and is quite essential in my personal growth is how to be accommodating of others and how to collaborate with individuals. I learned this thing while working with my team. In my company, we are expected to work in a team of at least 10 to 12 people and in this scenario, it is essential for us to always be mindful of others' time and be considerate of any help that they do provide and be considerate of their circumstances. I learned this while interacting daily with at least 2 to 3 people from the team and in evolving myself to be mindful of their personal time too. Additionally, I believe it's a great development because in society, we are also expected to live our life with different people, interact with multiple individuals whose circumstances we have no idea about. So it is good for us to be mindful of our actions and take others into consideration and be open-minded to all.

    Band 7

    Something that I've learnt in my present life and not in school and college is the endurance and the stability that I've learnt after marriage. Earlier also I was hardworking but not to that extent which I have developed now. Being a mother of two kids and managing all my household chores efficiently, I look forward to my continuous professional development and I make efforts to learn everyday, keep growing everyday and acquire the most of the knowledge that I can in my free time rather than wasting the time on petty and unimportant things. With developing more of understanding, interpersonal skills, empathy and different time management, I have relatively grown as a better human being. I respect the feelings of others. I also respect the time that I am giving to my studies, to my development as well as the time that I should devote to my family. I just take care that none of the important things that actually matter in my life should be neglected, focusing on my professional development only. I take care of all the aspects equally and try to be more efficient, more stable and more eligible to all the works assigned.

    Band 7

    There is this one time where I went to shop in a flower market to a florist and I bought a few flowers. When I paid for the flowers, I did not have the change and I asked the florist to keep the rest of the money with her because she did not have the change either. So rather than keeping the money with her, she offered me with more flowers. This made me realize that she was such a hardworking woman who did not want to keep her money for free. What I learned that day is even if your job is big or small, it's important for us to be humble, for us to be hardworking and dedicated to what we do and be truthful to ourselves because I think in the long run, that is what helps us a lot in our life. The importance that held into me that day was that it taught me a big lesson of how to be humble and down to earth and also be dedicated to what I do. What I felt after that was very, um...

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    One of the most important things I have ever learned outside formal education is the art of event management, especially during my time as a general convener of Festu Present Sanskriti 2025, the annual cultural fest of Jadavpur University. Firstly, the role taught me far more than textbooks ever could. Coordinating a fest of such scale required meticulous planning, negotiation skills and the ability to lead diverse teams. From arranging sponsorships to managing logistics and ensuring smooth performances, every detail demanded attention. Secondly, I have learned how to stay composed under pressure. Eventually, problems arise, last-minute cancellations, technical glitches, event budget constraints. Instead of panicking, I have learned to think critically, delegate efficiently and find quick solutions. Moreover, this experience strengthened my interpersonal skills. I had to interact with faculty, artists, sponsors, and students, all with different expectations. Balancing these interests and still delivering a successful event gave me even more confidence. To conclude, event management became a life lesson in leadership, adaptability, and problem-solving. Even now, as a mechanical engineer preparing for higher studies in Germany, I find these skills invaluable because they shape not just my professional approach but also my personality.

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    Back when I was a fresher in a company, I was expected to attend quite a few meetings. So, when the day came, I went to a meeting and I responded quite poorly due to my body language. So, that was a turning point because it made me curious and wanted to learn the body language so that I can be more confident in my own meetings. So, I started looking up online how to maintain proper posture and how to talk confidently. And when I did learn, I did apply those principles in my other meetings. So, the results were quite good and I think I might want to do it some more in the near future.

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    One of the most important things that I have learned is how to deal with things that do not go your way. Everybody wants things to go their way. Having said that, more often than not, we find ourselves in situations where we did not intend to be in. This lesson was taught to me by the great sport of basketball. I am a passionate basketball player and more often than not, I find myself in teams that are not good or my teammates are not up to what level of basketball I like to play at. That is why I tend to get very furious on them and I become pompous. Basketball has taught me that I cannot make everyone follow according to me or control everything. Everybody has their own way of doing things and everybody is on a learning path. I have been there where they are at right now and it is only a good teammate that can lead them to get better at the sport. Also, basketball has taught me one thing that is one of the most important things in life and that is unity. Unity and teamwork supersedes everything. Individual skill can only get you somewhere, but it is teamwork and unity that can get you all the way through. So these are the most important things that I have learned in basketball which are going to help me throughout my life.

    Band 7

    I was facing issues in making decisions like career choices or the right subject to choose and I just came across this field called design thinking which is all about asking why. Why you are supposed to take a certain decision, how it will impact and probing into the reason behind solution rather than just assuming that hey this solution is required and then I just need to do the solution implementation properly. The design thinking course was introduced through a lot of different ways in my life. There was a 30-day summit which was by MIT D-Lab which had me working with health workers in Tamil Nadu asking questions about reproductive health and best practices and how can we improve the adoption of those best practices, understanding why people behave in a certain way and then addressing the issue from the root cause. Design thinking has been life-changing for me. I was exhilarated by the fact that oh there is this problem solving technique which just doesn't focus on solving a problem properly but solving the right problem and it's a really important aspect in things like life, entrepreneurship, career. You can apply it anywhere and you will get results for sure. I was able to create my own startup using this particular methodology and was able to consult several large organizations.
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