Describe a disagreement you had with someone: IELTS Speaking Cue Card

You should say

  • Who was the person?
  • Why did you have the disagreement?
  • Was the issue resolved? If yes, how?
  • And explain what happened after the disagreement.

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Recently I had a disagreement with my dentist because I said that I was pursuing my higher education in AI and healthcare rather than I was moving into the PD of this industry field. The thing that he said when I told about him about this program is that he said AI or data science all are just a trend that is being upheld by many young generation. Trend will drastically decrease during the time, during the upcoming years and I never understood the point that he was about to make because as the population increases, as the development advances, data is always going to increase. As the data increases, we need more and more sources and technologies to cope up with that situation. AI is the future and will be always developing, evolving to make our life much more easier to assist us in every sector, in every area that humans have reached. So learning AI will always help us to move forward in this generation and moving ahead by learning NLP or deep learning and we will be one step ahead. I believe that I will be one step ahead than the rest of the doctors around here. So I think this is not just a trend, it is the future and it is always better to know things more about AI and to understand how the technological aspects work.

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I'm not someone who usually disagrees to people, but there are some times where I had to step in and, you know, counter some issues. So one major disagreement that I could remember was when I argued with my milkman to reduce the use of plastic. This happened a couple of months ago. This was because the milk was delivered in a plastic bag. I offered him a couple of other alternatives that he could opt for, like bringing the container up to my house and then taking the milk in a container or a small bowl, and that would reduce the use of plastic for both of us. I also let him in my house, gave him a glass of water, and discussed about how plastic is such a bad thing for Earth. It takes years and years of, I told him it takes years and years of, you know, uh...

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Last night, while I was talking to my best friend, we had a disagreement. The disagreement was about celebrating my birthday. She wanted me to celebrate my birthday in a fancy club, whereas I am a very introvert person and I do not like to celebrate my birthday. She was pushing me out of my comfort zone and telling me to do something different this time. But I am not that sort of a person and she was not understanding that it is my birthday and I should celebrate it the way I like it. Yes, we did come to a consensus at the end, but it was all about just not understanding each other and I feel friendship is about respecting the other person's views. The disagreement did end up in a little quarrel, but the solution came out to be that she will give me a surprise, but something that I would genuinely love and something that is in my comfort zone.

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While I attended a party in Melbourne, I had a friend who started talking about social issues, about how the world is changing and how sustainability has become a priority, as it should be, I said. But at the same time, he kept on saying that how the ocean has it all, how the ocean makes it more easy to grab resources, even though these large bodies of water which are unknown to the mankind and are not a lot to explore there. He kept on persisting about how deep sea mining can be something that is more fruitful for a man, even though it has its own causes and risks. This man made it seem like the sea has everything to offer us and we are entitled to take anything we want from it. But then I disagreed and made it very clear that my opinion on deep sea mining was and has always been a very reluctant one. Deep sea mining has something that most of the creatures do not wish to have upon them. This is a part of humanity that has been more ignorant and that is what touches me the most. People think that there is more for the world to offer than they have to offer to the world. But that is absolutely wrong and we should look into sustainability and continue the practice for our future generations.

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I am trying to recall an incident that happened 3 years back at my home. It was regarding the purchase of a motorcycle for me regarding my work. I really wanted a motorcycle to have a convenient commute to and fro from my office. So we had a discussion planned at my home in order to decide on which motorcycle that I have to purchase. But my parents were more inclined towards fuel efficiency of the vehicle. But instead I was more passionate towards the performance of the motorcycle. So the discussion went on for weeks actually in my home. On the one hand, I was more interested in having a race edition motorcycle. On the other hand, my parents were more interested in a cruise bike. So at the end of the day, I decided to purchase the motorcycle in my dreams. So I purchased a bike called Apache RTR 200 which is a race edition superb bike of TVS. But I did it after convincing my parents of my interest and my passion to have my dream motorcycle. So ultimately they agreed with me and helped me in buying my dream bike. Still now, I am using the same bike and I am really happy that I made this decision because I had the bike of my dreams and I am also happy with the fuel efficiency that this bike is providing me and till now no problems have been observed.
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Cue 1:Who was the person?

  • Introduce the person you had the disagreement with, mentioning your relationship with them.
  • Provide some context about how long you have known this person and the nature of your interactions.

Example

The person I had a disagreement with was my younger brother, Rohan. We have been close since childhood, sharing everything from toys to secrets. We often have friendly debates, but this particular disagreement was more serious.


Cue 2:Why did you have the disagreement?

  • Clearly explain the topic of the disagreement and why it was important to both of you.
  • Share your perspective and Rohan's perspective to give a balanced view.

Example

The disagreement arose over our plans for a family vacation. I wanted to go to the mountains for some adventure, while Rohan insisted on a beach destination for relaxation. Both of us felt strongly about our choices, as I wanted to experience the thrill of trekking, and he wanted to unwind by the sea.


Cue 3:Was the issue resolved? If yes, how?

  • Discuss how you both approached the resolution of the disagreement.
  • Mention any compromises or discussions that led to a solution.

Example

Eventually, we decided to sit down and talk it out. We listed the pros and cons of each destination and realized that we could combine both ideas. We agreed to spend a few days in the mountains and then relax at the beach. This compromise made both of us happy.


Cue 4:And explain what happened after the disagreement.

  • Describe the aftermath of the disagreement and how it affected your relationship.
  • Share any positive outcomes or lessons learned from the experience.

Example

After resolving the disagreement, our relationship grew stronger. We learned to appreciate each other's viewpoints more. The trip turned out to be a fantastic experience, and we created wonderful memories together. It taught us the importance of communication and compromise.


Conclusion

    Example

    In conclusion, disagreements can be challenging, but they also provide opportunities for growth and understanding. My experience with Rohan taught me that listening and finding common ground can lead to better relationships and enjoyable experiences.


    Following this structure will ensure you cover all the essential points while providing a clear and engaging response to the cue card topic.


    Tips to answer this Cue Card

    1: Vague Descriptions

    Using vague language can make your answer unclear. It's important to provide specific details about the disagreement to engage the listener and demonstrate your language skills.

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    Use clear examples and specific details about the disagreement, such as the person involved and the exact issue to make your response more vivid.


    2: Ignoring Resolution

    Failing to discuss how the disagreement was resolved can leave your answer incomplete. It’s essential to show how conflicts can be managed and resolved.

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    Always include how the issue was resolved, whether through discussion, compromise, or another method, to show your problem-solving skills.


    Lack of Reflection

    Not reflecting on what happened after the disagreement can make your answer seem shallow. It's important to show personal growth or changes in your relationship.

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    Tip

    Conclude by explaining what you learned from the disagreement and how it affected your relationship with the person involved.


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    I had a disagreement with my high school colleague Ravi on sex education. I believe it is essential for students to understand their bodies, consent and safe practices. According to me, proper knowledge could reduce teenage pregnancies and the spread of STDs. Ravi, however, disagreed and argued that sex education would encourage students to become sexually active too early. He felt such topics should be discussed at home, not in classrooms. I countered saying many parents avoid the topic due to discomfort or lack of knowledge. I also emphasized that ignorance leads to riskier behavior, not information. He then agreed that moral values were more important than technical values. Later, we also got into the fact that morality and education were not mutually exclusive. I insisted that students were informed to make better choices. Ravi felt that schools should focus on academic excellence, not personal matters. I reminded him that mental and physical health are part of physical well-being. Our principal listened to both sides but leaned towards my view, citing public health data. And so, the debate was resolved, but it sparked a much-needed conversation among the staff.

    Band 7

    Last night, while I was talking to my best friend, we had a disagreement. The disagreement was about celebrating my birthday. She wanted me to celebrate my birthday in a fancy club, whereas I am a very introvert person and I do not like to celebrate my birthday. She was pushing me out of my comfort zone and telling me to do something different this time. But I am not that sort of a person and she was not understanding that it is my birthday and I should celebrate it the way I like it. Yes, we did come to a consensus at the end, but it was all about just not understanding each other and I feel friendship is about respecting the other person's views. The disagreement did end up in a little quarrel, but the solution came out to be that she will give me a surprise, but something that I would genuinely love and something that is in my comfort zone.

    Band 7

    There was a situation in a hospital when I was looking for a patient, the patient BP had dropped. He was hypervolumic. Instead of pressing the fluid in, I asked doctor first for the instruction to be followed. He asked me to watch for 30 minutes and BP was continuously dropping. I reconfirmed with the doctor to carry out the further intervention. I had prepared all the drugs to raise the BP but he had ordered fluid resuscitation. I administered fluid but the BP was, blood pressure was not maintaining the stable range. So I had some situation with disagreement with the doctor regarding the drugs used to increase the blood pressure but he refused that. I assisted the blood pressure of the patient frequently in 5 and 10 minutes. Still there was no improvement. Then I escalated the concern to my nursing in-charge and he talked with the doctor. As a result, he consulted with the physician and responded appropriately to the situation.

    Band 7

    I would like to talk about a disagreement I had with my colleague. As I am working in Apollo Hospital, we had a disagreement regarding the treatment protocol for total knee replacement as there are plethora of topics for total knee replacement, plethora of protocols for total knee replacement. But first week, immediately after post-operative surgery, first week is very crucial in prescribing exercises for the total knee replacement patient. He told we have to provide electro-therapy for pain relief. As I disagreed with him because in total knee replacement, original knee joint is replaced with artificial femoral condyles and patella. So, if you give electro-therapy to that patient, it won't be useful to her. Instead of electro-therapy, we had to prescribe exercises and wax therapy to reduce the pain. I explained him in detail with pictures and evidence-based physiotherapy and therefore he agreed and therefore the disagreement became solved as he understood the importance of wax therapy and exercises instead of electro-therapy for total knee replacement condition. After disagreement, we became normal and began working our regular duties as we are working in the same hospital. We don't have any ego issues to deal with and we became normal and we are working together to improve.

    Band 7

    When it comes to deciding the future product strategy, it is usually surrounded with immense ambiguity and uncertainty, therefore, becoming fertile grounds for disagreements or extended discussions. So was the case with me, around 8 months ago, we were at a critical junction in our organization where we had to decide on what the backend architecture for one of the flagship products would look like, and my manager, whose name is Vishwanath, was of the opinion that we should continue using Lucene as the backbone of our product, whereas my position was more inclined towards using the latest tools available in the market, like the Baster tool. So there was back and forth discussion, and eventually, both of us thought the best way ahead is to zoom out and look at what the big picture is, and which of these decisions will help us get there at an expedited timeline. And we eventually realized that the Lucene architecture is so deeply ingrained in our current product that it becomes very difficult for it to replace with the latest tools, hence we moved forward with Lucene.

    Band 7

    One disagreement I clearly remember was with my childhood best friend, someone I've been close to since primary school. What makes this memory stand out is that the whole issue started over something incredibly small. I made a harmless joke during one of our usual conversations. I honestly meant it in a playful way because that's how we normally speak to each other. But for some reason, she took it very personally that day. Instead of telling me that she felt hurt, she reacted quite dramatically and actually blocked me on every single platform, Instagram, Whatsapp, Snapchat, everything. At that age, it felt like the end of the world because we used to talk constantly and suddenly there was complete silence. Due to this misunderstanding, we ended up not speaking for nearly 3 months and for two people who were practically inseparable, that gap felt extremely long. We would still see each other in school and the atmosphere was so awkward. Our mutual friends tried to get us to talk but we were both too stubborn to make the first move. Eventually, the issue was resolved but it happened very naturally. One day she reached out and we finally had an honest conversation about the joke and how it made her feel. I apologized, she apologized for overreacting and we realized how easily a small misunderstanding can grow when there's no communication at all. After the disagreement, our friendship actually became stronger. We became more mindful of each other's feelings and we learned not to jump into conclusions or react impulsively. Even now, we laugh about the whole incident because it's funny how a tiny joke managed to create such a big gap between us.

    Band 7

    I remember having a disagreement with one of my colleagues when I was working on Bodhisattva. He is actually an experienced but old person. And at that time I was an apprentice. It was the first time me on Bodhisattva and I lacked the experience and the information about what to do. So this guy actually started to shout towards me as if I knew about what to do. This ended up in a heated discussion between us. However, we solved the issue between ourselves. I started to be open to him. I told him that I didn't actually know what needed to be done or how it should be done. So I asked to tell him the instructions or the information that I needed to do before the job was being done. So that I could prepare in advance. When I was so open to him, he started to become more friendly.

    Band 7

    The person with whom I had a disagreement is my mother regarding the topic of choice of dressing. My mother feels that wearing a certain kind of dress for women especially short sleeves or short tops or shorts in public is not a modest thing to do and it often gets associated with poor character. This was troubling for me to hear and we had a long discussion regarding where these feelings and thoughts came from. I explained to my mother that clothing choices were different people's preferences and it also just showed what they are more comfortable with and it could also be cultural. My mother explained to me how she was brought up in a system where certain kinds of clothes were associated with appropriacy and not wearing which could lead to judgment from those around her. Being deeply conditioned had affected how she thought about clothing for women in general. After our conversation, I cannot say that my mother was completely convinced about my argument but she was willing to listen and think about her own perspective and I also understood where I came, where she came from.

    Band 7

    One disagreement I clearly remember was with one of my closest friends during a group project in school. We were assigned to make a presentation on climate change and both of us had different ideas about how to approach it. I wanted to focus more on the scientific data and causes while she preferred to highlight the emotional and social impact through visual and stories. At first it seemed like a small difference but as we started planning it, it turned into a heated argument. Neither of us wanted to compromise because we both felt strongly about our ideas. The tension made it difficult for the whole group to work together. After cooling down, I decided to speak to her privately. We both realized that we were letting our egos get in the way. So we decided to So when we communicate through each other, the disagreement can be turned into an agreement and if we keep our egos aside, everything can be possible.

    Band 7

    The latest disagreement that I had was with my friend Lexi. It was over a topic of humanitarian crisis. Lexi believes that the humanitarian crisis that doesn't happen in our country or affects the people that we know shouldn't be of our concern. She explains that there are things that are happening in our country which should be more emphasized rather than things that happen in a different country of people that we don't even know. I let her know that although it is true that there is a lot of issues happening in our country, it is still important for us to have empathy for people that are suffering around the world. Even if you do not know them, empathy shouldn't be based on your relation with the person, but it should be based on your human essence. I explained to her that even if it is not a matter of our country, it is a matter of us humans. If in situations humans' life, their safety, their food and basic necessities have been threatened, then it becomes a concern for all of us. It talks about our ethics more than anything. When I explained it to her, she took it well. She understood that she lacked knowledge and she came off as ignorant. She promised me to read more upon it and work on her skills that she is lacking. Thank you.
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