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My partner and I do not live together right now, so is living together mandatory for a UK or New Zealand spouse visa?

08 Oct 2026 · Answered by Shairal Pathak · 1 min read
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It depends on the country. In the UK, living together is not strictly mandatory for married or civil partners, though cohabitation evidence is highly recommended; unmarried partners typically need 2 years together. New Zealand residence partner visas ask for at least 12 months of living together; other partner visas differ.

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It depends on which country you apply to. The UK is more flexible for married couples, while New Zealand residence partner visas expect you to have lived together first.

Rules by country

CountryLiving together requirement
UKNot strictly mandatory for married or civil partners, but strong cohabitation evidence is highly recommended; unmarried partners typically need proof of at least 2 years together
New ZealandFor residence partner visas, you must show you lived together in a genuine relationship for at least 12 months before applying; other partner visas differ

If you have not lived together

If work, study or cultural reasons kept you apart, you may still be eligible with alternative proof of a genuine relationship, such as joint finances or regular communication. Policies can change, so confirm the current rules.

My Advice

If you plan to apply for a New Zealand residence partner visa, think about when you can start living together so the 12 months are on record. Whichever country you choose, keep clear proof of why you lived apart and how you stayed in touch.

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